A man is called a fool for not retaliating with violence when he is oppressed, but he showed his strength by not striking back. Another man is mocked for not going to a place where no follower of Jesus's example would go. A woman is thought to be unkind when she doesn't weep at a loved one's death, but she knows that the death was welcome. All of these people had unseen burdens, but the world scorned them.